Peeps !!!
C e buns in the photo ??? haz ... my uncle suddenly decided to pay us a visit and he didn't come empty handed so we get to enjoy buns lor :p
Oi !!! dun jus look at it and den say not nice k ??? must try den know one hor :p
quite nice la pple ...
Wahaha !!! talking to my friends in Sydney and discussing the possibilities of me joining either him in Sydney or another friend in UK :p
i was thinking after 2 years in CJC and another 2 more in the NS i will be free !!!
yeah ... u think i crazy hor ... say stuff that will happen in 4 years like it's goanna end tomorrow like that ... but who says u cannot be hopeful ??? the more u pine 4 it the more u wun realise how ~slow~ time passes :p
sounds totally fun hor ??? i know man !!! the SCHOLARSHIPS here i come !!!!
GEORGE CARLIN (His wife recently died...)
Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate ??
A Message by George Carlin :
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints.
We spend more, but have less, we buy more, but enjoy less.
We have bigger houses and smaller families, more conveniences, but less time.
We have more degrees but less sense, more knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little, watch TV too much, and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values.
We talk too much, love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life.
We've added years to life not life to years.
We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble crossing the street to meet a new neighbor.
We conquered outer space but not inner space.
We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul.
We've conquered the atom, but not our prejudice.
We write more, but learn less.
We plan more, but accomplish less.
We've learned to rush, but not to wait.
We build more computers to hold more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small character, steep profits and shallow relationships.
These are the days of two incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes.
These are days of quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands, overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the stockroom.
A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time when you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak!
And give time to share the precious thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
George Carlin
haz came across this article after i posted my previous post :p
Are you a nice guy who has always wondered why the cocky guy -- the one who barely appears interested in the girl -- is usually the one who gets the girl?
Have you suffered from hearing the words, "You're a really nice guy, but I only like you as a friend," from a woman who you would do (or may, in fact, have already done) just about anything and everything for -- only to turn around and watch her date (or even chase) a guy who treats her like she's nothing special? And are you stumped wondering why she would date a guy who treats her like that when she could have you who would treat her like a princess and give her everything she wants? Well, you better brace yourself because I'm going to tell you a couple of secrets that you might not want to hear.
First, "nice" equates with boring and predictable. Look up "nice" in the dictionary and you find: pleasant; agreeable; satisfactory. In other words, average -- not exceptional, not exciting, and not sexy.I'll bet you've never heard a woman say she didn't want to date a guy because he was too confident, too passionate, or too exciting -- have you? But, I'll bet you have heard women say things like, "He's such a nice guy. He's so sweet and he's always there for me, but I only like him as a friend." Or, "He's such a good guy -- kind, thoughtful, generous, honest, loyal -- but there's no chemistry. He just doesn't turn me on." Sadly, I hear it all the time.
The fact is, Mr. Nice Guy, you cannot bore a woman into feeling attracted to you or into wanting to date you. And as obvious as that sounds, if you are one of those guys I described that is exactly what you are trying to do. And it won't work.
Please understand that I am not suggesting that you mistreat women or disrespect them in any way. What I suggesting is that you value and respect yourself more.
To illustrate what I mean: The answer to the question, "Why does the guy who doesn't appear to care as much about the girl get the girl?" is simple: The nice guy cares too much, too soon. He has made the woman too important and too valuable and it shows in everything he says and does. He is too available, too eager to please, too accommodating, and he gives too much -- all without getting anything in return. By doing so, he has made himself appear desperate, insecure, needy of this woman's attention, affection, and approval -- and he has stripped himself of any value in her eyes.
After all, if he's already doing and giving everything, without her doing or giving anything - why would she value him? She won't. She is not going to value him any more than he values himself. What she is going to do is look for someone else, someone who she perceives as being more worthy, more confident, and more valuable.
Once you need something, or you want it too badly, you forfeit your strength and lose all power of negotiation. You are in a position of weakness and you are perceived as weak. Someone (or something) else is in control of you, the situation, and it's outcome. Men in this situation appear to be anything but confident, strong, and exciting. More, they are perceived as being unworthy and as lacking value.
Translation: Things that are easily acquired, obtained, or maintained, without any effort or sacrifice, lack value... it's human nature.
The secret to why the cocky guy wins with women, over the nice guy, is that he is perceived as being a stronger, more confident guy with more value. How? He never invests everything -- his entire being, ego, and self-worth in what one woman's response or reaction to him is. He doesn't gush with compliments; he isn't always available; he doesn't give too much; and he knows he isn't going to die if a woman says "no" to him. More, his attitude is, yeah, I'd like to go out with you, but if I can't, that's OK -- I'm a busy guy, with exciting things going on, and lots of other options.
NICE GUYS OUT THERE GEDDIT ???
http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/85967/dating-secret-exposed-why-nice-guys-finish-last
Peeps ...
I realised that i am actually a person who's very afraid of - feelings - in particular ...
I - know - for sure that i do not want to be seriously attached to something/someone because i know that the higher my hopes the harder I fall ...
I know of people who spend one helluva time trying to get over a breakup and that period affects not only themseleves but also people around them ... besides i dun wanna even know how they tide over that period ... painful process huh ?
I do not see things the positive way like many others who do and get attached ... I tend to view it in a rather negative light ...
I was over at one of my classmate's place for a econs project and she had a really cute dog that was 7 years old ... however when I caught wind that that breed of dog only had an average lifespan of 12 years ... I said : "oh, means only 5 more years to go ..." of course i don't mean to be mean or insensitive but it really did come across to me that the dog was going to live for ONLY another 5 more years and then ... yeah u get it ... I don't wanna come across as mean ya noe ???
It's really hard to get me to open up and for someone to be considered a "close" friend of mine ... haz ... that person must have either went through a lot with me or "click-ed" with me at our first encounter ... it not haha ... the furthest our relationship would go would be at - FRIENDS -
so yeah ... jus thought i should pen a little part of myself down :p
YO!!! instead of jus telling u how exciting my class is .... i decided to put it out in pictorial form :p
101 THINGS 1T10 DOES IN CLASS ...
u talk ...
u talk, and u talk ...
u meddle with class funds :p
Me
Tze Wei
Tze Kai
wahaha !!! was clearing out e photos in my phone when i came across this photo :)
that's me and my cousin at the book store :p
